As someone who once had a story accepted for publication after having it rejected over fifty times, it may seem like I would never give up on a story. However, I have a folder on my computer that is overflowing with abandoned and hopeless pieces of writing.
Given that most publications reject many more pieces than they accept, and some publications have an acceptance percentage that’s damn near zero, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that most stories get rejected before they find a home. But how many rejections is too many? When is it safe to give up on a piece for good?
Although I don’t often do it, on principle it’s a great idea to revisit a piece any time it is rejected. I always recommend it, but given that I try to do too much as it is, it’s simply not feasible most of the time. If I get personal feedback (which rarely seems to happen these days, although feedback that is supposed to seem personal but says nothing about my story is getting more popular), then I always go back over the story with the editor’s comments in mind. Of course, if I just get a note that says “this wasn’t right for us,” how am I really supposed to know what to look for when I read my story over for the thirty-third time?
I don’t think there’s a set number of rejections we must encounter before a piece is rendered unsalvageable. Nor do I think there is a maximum number of times a piece can be rejected before we must trash it. While it certainly can be deflating to have the same story rejected dozens of times, giving up on a piece is much deeper than mere rejection.
There’s no single gauge that clearly identifies a story as useless. The subjectivity of the whole writing game doesn’t allow for it. However, here are some signs that it might be time to give up on a piece.
You Don’t Want to Read It Again
I know it can be hard to reread our own stuff over and over, but it’s something that we sometimes have to do. There are stories that I’ve written that I really enjoy reading, no matter how many times I’ve already read them. On the flip side, there are stories I’ve written that I can’t read past the first sentence. If you go to read a story and find that you just can’t get through it, then give it a break. Try it again after a few days. If you still can’t bear to read it over, then it’s probably time to trash that story.
You Can’t Ever Finish the Story
I don’t mean that the story keeps going and going and going with no end in sight. I mean you can’t continue what you’ve already written to make the story get to an ending. Keep track of how many times you open a file to write the story. If you find the story going nowhere, or you find yourself repeatedly opening the file and closing it without making any changes, then it’s probably time to move onto something else.
You Look for the Magazines with the Highest Acceptance Rates (and still get rejected)
Just because a magazine has a high acceptance rate doesn’t mean it’s bad. Some of my favorite magazines have unheard of acceptance rates. But part of this is due to the fact that they get sent a lot of quality work from writers in a close-knit community the magazine develops. Now, if you are specifically looking for a magazine with a really high acceptance rate just to try to get an oft-rejected piece published, then maybe that’s a sign that you should retire the piece. If you have no confidence in it, why do you even want to share it with others? Of course, if you do send it to one of these magazines and it still gets rejected, then you definitely know it’s time to stick that story in the old hopeless folder.
You’ve Revised it a Hundred Times and You Still Don’t Like It
Every good story has been revised. Most good stories have probably been revised dozens of times. But if you find yourself making major editorial overhauls every time you read over a piece, then maybe that’s a sign that this story just isn’t working for you. It could be that you’re a perfectionist, or that this is really your life work and you want to master it before sharing the masterpiece. Chances are though, if your editing habits for one story in particular are vastly different than your typical editing process, then that story has likely eluded you and belongs in the trash bin. That doesn’t mean your efforts were wasted. Anything you write helps you become a better writer.
You’re Embarrassed to Submit It or Share It with Friends
This one is a bit of a no-brainer. If you don’t even want to share the story, then chances are that it’s time to abandon it. Unless of course it is something so deeply personal that you just don’t want it to see the light of day while you’re still alive. But given the public world we live in, that isn’t likely.
When it all comes down to it, there’s no single way to determine that a piece is ready to hibernate for good. The only way to truly know that it’s time to give up on a story is when it feels like it’s time to give up on a story. Most of the stories I’ve given up on are ones that I never finished. If I open a document twelve times and find myself unable to edit or add anything worthwhile, then I know exactly where to drag that file.
But the files are always worth keeping. We can always go back through the folder and look at some of those old abandoned pieces to try to learn something about ourselves. And who knows. Maybe someday you’ll open one of those files and find yourself finishing a masterpiece.